Gingerism

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Dear Right Advice,

-BlahBlahBlah- Thursday night a kid in my grade (9th) -BlahBlahBlah- who's a skater -BlahBlahBlah- has a good amount of friends -BlahBlahBlah- has red hair -BlahBlahBlah- his name is Jon -BlahBlahBlah- put his Facebook status as

jersey shore =gay

-BlahBlahBlah- a 11th grader bob who's really popular commented on it

Jon= flaming Ginger who's scared to come out of the closet.

-BlahBlahBlah- bob makes fun of everyone and has alwAsys made fun of Jon -BlahBlahBlah- last year bob got inna car accedent and an old lady died -BlahBlahBlah- Jon commented back

bob =old lady killer

-BlahBlahBlah- apologized immedetly -BlahBlahBlah- Friday at lunch bob pushed Jon into a wall and proceeded to punch him multiple times -BlahBlahBlah- Jon ducked once and made bob punch thebbrick wall and it broke bobs hand -BlahBlahBlah- Jon is suspended not bob -BlahBlahBlah- everyone is taking bobs side because he is popular. -BlahBlahBlah- The school is even taking bobs side -BlahBlahBlah- I know when Jon comes back he will get beat up -BlahBlahBlah- I want to talk to someone in the school so they understand his but I don't know how. -BlahBlahBlah-


Sincerely,
-BlahBlahBlah-
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Dude, you're not going to get anywhere with the school administration. You might get one adult to agree that this is an injustice, but they're not going to stick their neck out for some Ginger skater.

Shot callers in schools cannot retract their decisions, even when they're shitty decisions. What's going to happen is before Jon gets off suspension, there will be a meeting with parents behind closed doors, and the concession made for Jon is he will not be punished any further for this bullshit. There will be no apology and no reparations for the days he's missed.

There are a lot of adults involved in suspending a kid. Thus, when a kid is suspended unjustly, a lot of adults stand to look really stupid. Shot callers can't go around stabbing those adults in the back. It breeds descent.
And that kid will be gone in just a couple short years, so fuck it, what's a couple pissed off Gingers?

Further more there's this bullshit misalignment between a popular kid's tramatic killing of an old lady, and the ridicule that gingers have to put up with in school.

Even the staff of the school thinks it's sorta funny that redheads are getting called gingers.

If you're getting bullied because you've got red hair, and you're not fat and/or gay, then you're just going to have to suck it up because nobody is going to give a shit. You're fair fucking game. It's just the way things are.

Perhaps one day Gingerism will be part of a grad program's curriculum but until then, all the bleeding heart do-gooders, who should be protecting you, will be busy protecting the fat and/or gay kids.

Now as far as the legend of Jon vs. Bob goes, Jon broke Bob's hand in a fight and got suspended. Nice work Ginger.

It's just too bad that the precedent has been set by the school's administration that there is no consequence for punching you repeatedly in the face with bone breaking blows.

On the flip side, when you return to school, and someone tries to fight you over this bullshit, even more adults will be involved at which point you'll have the opportunity to point out that you have to fight for survival because it's been documented that when you fall victim to violence, your attackers don't get in trouble.

My advice to Jon: The next time Bob starts shit with you, go at his face with your fucking keys. No matter what, you'll be getting off scot-free. That's the shit that legends are made of.

Should She Dump Her Pervert Boyfriend?

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Dear Right Advice
-BlahBlahBlah- they were talking about a future together. -BlahBlahBlah- he was spending so many nights up late on the computer. -BlahBlahBlah- she actually installed a keylogger on his computer -BlahBlahBlah- live porn site every night for hours. -BlahBlahBlah- he had some fantasies -BlahBlahBlah- she-the cam stripper- pretends to be the mother, strips nude and wiggles around and masturbates in front of him -BlahBlahBlah- she told him she knew all about what he was doing with cam strippers -BlahBlahBlah- He denied doing it -BlahBlahBlah- With the keylogger on his computer she could see exactly what he had been doing -BlahBlahBlah- She wonders if she should end it with him. She says the lying about it is as bad as the actual porn.

Sincerely,
-BlahBlahBlah-
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Your poor friend. Having the girls at her office gathered around her computer while she opened batches of emails, with screen shots from the keylogger, showing her boyfriend M-bating in tandem with a cam whore, must have been mortifying.

I can't believe he gave your friend permission to download keylogging software to his computer... oh wait, HE DIDN'T! Your shitty friend just went ahead and did it. If your shitty friend were a private investigator, she would have lost her lic. for that.

For those who live in the real world, I must state that if you meet a guy who M-bates to cam whores, you probably met him on the internet. And when you meet a guy on the internet you need to keep in mind that he's formed a habit (probably over years of routine) of going home after work and assing it in front of the computer till bedtime. It's sort of like meeting a girl who's had a cat for 3 years- but even though his house doesn't stink like shit, and sitting on his furniture won't fuck up your clothes, Party B has no business judging Party A on lifestyle decisions prior to the relationship.

And did I read that this guy is paying a women to act out his oedipal fantasies? Apparently this guy seeks a compassion he can't find for free.

My advice to your friend: Tell your boyfriend that you committed espionage against him and part knowing you got dumped for a cam whore.