Guy in Class

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Dear Right Advice,
-BlahBlahBlah- guy in my dance activity class at school -BlahBlahBlah- crush on. -BlahBlahBlah- We've talked briefly once or twice..-BlahBlahBlah- he also holds my hand tightly when we have to dance together and even holds it when -BlahBlahBlah- I am not saying he likes me but he appears to be friendly. However, -BlahBlahBlah- school basketball game -BlahBlahBlah- he was sitting with -BlahBlahBlah- I have no idea if he has a girlfriend or likes someone else -BlahBlahBlah- how should I go about this? -BlahBlahBlah- let him approach me -BlahBlahBlah- start talking to him -BlahBlahBlah- shy -BlahBlahBlah- suggestions -BlahBlahBlah- without scaring him away -BlahBlahBlah-

Sincerely,
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Okay, you're grossing me out. You've talked to this guy twice and are now certain he's someone you're afraid you might scare out of falling in love with you.

For those of you who don't know, in most dance classes, there are more girls than guys. This means that throughout class, the guys rotate after a few measures from girl to girl, so everyone gets a chance to practice the lesson.

It's pretty dope for a guy. With 10% more practice, you glide from the one girl who hasn't got the steps down, to a girl who can keep up, and then oh look the next girl isn't wearing a bra!

So this guy looks like an amazing dancer, (because he gets to constantly drill on the steps) while you're standing by yourself watching him dance with other girls.

That's a perfect recipe for a really stupid reason to have a crush on a guy.


My advice to you: Find a better reason to like this guy. That way, if you ever get around to making a move, it won't seem slutty or needy.